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Paul the pimp!!

How do you deal with your husband who brings in his 5 adult married children to verbally abuse you in your own house. It’s hard. Where is the protector?

I appreciate this video. A lot of times marriage is talked about just making us holy. I get that but there's also more not just a constant chastisement.

This gentleman provides a very ....very fresh approach to life problem solving .....❤😊

Excellent, sir. I think you saved my life. Thank you.

No, my wife is way more disrespectful than I and it’s something she learned growing up. Disrespect is a learned behavior I see

I think this one was a little too late. been separated for a year.

Masterful advice! When we hit an obstacle, keep throwing things at the wall--possible solutions--filled with love, until something sticks! Great work!

I am crying watching this as I realise my wife and I were unhappy for most of our 18 years together.

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Sex is the 1st reason 😢

Thank you .

Thank you for these videos. My wife and I of 11 years are really struggling. I know it's been mainly me at the fault of this, but these videos are eye opening, and making me quite upset with myself. Which is good. Like how was I not seeing everything i was doing wrong, and in some case not doing things at all. This is the help I needed, and pray I'm not too late to rectify everything. I love her with all that I am, and cannot imagine life without her. Our song was always God Gave Me You. I still truly believe that.

Lol... its always the guys fault according to yet another expert. Why do you think we golf, play video games, go to the movies alone, get outside of the house second jobs? To minimize the time we have to spend with her! We are not attracting her? It's a two way street pal.

Most Women are Sociopathic and if there are kids, they don’t care how it affects them, but men do. And if the Father is a good Father, Women think they will automatically get full custody, think again.

What if he has mental health problems that treatment isn’t helping and no matter how much unconditional love and passion you pour in, he still hurts you on a regular basis and he says he’s sorry but he never SHOWS he’s sorry. How long am I supposed to be patient and be there for a man who isn’t there for me? He’s the only man I’ve ever loved and I thought he loved me passionately, but now I’m seeing he doesn’t care. I think his love has always been fake just so he could keep mine, because he doesn’t change.

So how do you handle her immature qualities like not taking accountability, lashing out angrily then apologizing but doing it again… that’s more advice

What about if it only happens when they are intoxicated?

Or maybe instead of saying this he should find a way to please me bcz ive been trying to ask him if its something im doing for quite sometime and i didnt change anything from the moment we got married till now

I’m a female and her husband made a pass at me and now he’s convinced her to think that I’m a bad friend.

Everything you say, makes a lot of sense and I am so glad God directed me to your videos. I want to watch all of them and I’ve been taking notes. I have hope things will be better than they were before!

Would be nice to have someone to open up to.

This is Soo good 👍👍👍 married get to good point please

I can’t help but to react when I feel disrespected and it’s a huge challenge for me to just let it go.

The angel saint has spoken! :)

Amazing amazing I totally agree 👍

Thanks.

Your well taken… Appreciate this… 💈Shanethebarber💈

I will never give up on my wife and my children Joshua and David I will love take care and protect them forever ❤️👋🌹🥇

So wives just want to include their husbands in their psychological suffering? They don’t actually want their suffering fixed? They just want their husbands to listen to it but not try to fix and relieve their suffering? They just want to suffer together I’m asking honestly? It just seems like an extremely selfish mindset to put someone else through pain for any reason.

I love my wife so much ❤ I will never give up on her!😊

It depends on the age of the kids and circumstances. If the kids are almost 18 and older, then my spouse comes first.

Wish I had a life like that..

Paul, I want you to know your videos are awesome. Your wisdom and what you say makes a lot of sense. I want to take the course that you offer and I would love to read your book. I’m looking to purchase the book. I will get it soon. Thank you. I’m going to watch every video you have on UA-cam thank you

This advice won't work if both people don't want to make it better. Otherwise your going to have one person pouring everything into the relationship while the other one just takes. Guess who ends up with a mental health crisis when their depleted?

You make it sound so easy. Flight is the only thing I know that works. Once emotionally hurt women in general will go to very dark places. I get we are the protectors but this is not as easy as just saying don't get upset

To late on my account.

And what if there’s abuse?

My husband just got done telling me how he is better than me, how he has succeeded in capitalism than me, and how he will choose my parents over me and that we will need to get a divorce if I want him to stand by my side. So, tell me more about how he doesn’t hate me?

I feel like I get told to "shut the fuck up" every other day... specially when I ask him to not make a mess right after I organized everything I feel stupid

But that’s on them not us , what about Respect for the men .

Thank you so much sir its very helpful. Your an angel😊

Thank you again before I messed up. It’s challenging to be affectionate while watching porn and social media. But the help of god it will be okay.

Maybe, take these courses BEFORE you get married. Just a suggestion.

That works both ways

This is beautiful. Thank you

This is a beautiful clip, thank you!

I am telling her the facts of a situation. I treat her like she treats me then she is mad about it. Any mature adult should be able to verbalize their issues in a reasonable manner. I used to get upset and my tone and volume of voice reflected my anger. She said that was the reason she used to avoid conversations. I fixed that, I no longer raise my voice or over talk her. I give plenty of time in between questions for her to reply. Oftentimes, hours, days and weeks have gone by waiting for her to respond or when she says I cant talk about this right now. Just as I thought from early on these were smokescreens, meant to distract me. I began taking notes during the conversations and even suggested we record the conversations. She was adamantly against recording the conversations. If there is something I want to clearly communicate I will email or text to have a record of what we both have said as well as the words used. TRUTH triggers anger when she has painted herself into a corner. I can always tell when she knows she is wrong she will cook nice breakfasts, lunches, dinners and cleans up the kitchen afterwards... That is her peace offering. I am just not allowing her to be unaccountable to the facts.